Resilience has been turned into something it isn't. In most workplaces the word now means endure more — absorb the pressure, bounce back faster, be the one who can take it. Offered that way, a resilience programme quietly tells people the problem is their own insufficient toughness, while the conditions producing the strain stay exactly as they were. In the hardest sectors the word lands as an instruction to complain less, and it makes things worse.
Genuine resilience is close to the opposite of endurance. It is the capacity to recover — to meet difficulty, be affected by it, and return to full function — not the capacity to absorb difficulty indefinitely without showing it. Those are different things, and confusing them is expensive.